Acceptance and Commitment Therapy

In Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), we aim to help you learn how to be with the unpleasant experiences and conditions that you will inevitably face in life in a way that creates less suffering for you. Furthermore, we will focus on helping you create the choices – and move in a direction – that will give you an experience of a richer and more meaningful life.

Our Attempts to Avoid Discomfort is Part of the Problem

One of the core aspects of ACT is the view that too strong attempts to try to control or avoid what we think and feel is actually keeping us from living a meaningful and fulfilling life. Attempts to control and avoid can thus be part of the reason why we are not living life in the way we truly want.

If we experience anxiety in social gatherings, for instance, we can avoid these and miss out of relations that could’ve been rewarding to us. If we experience a lot of self-condescending thoughts in our job, we may avoid speaking with our colleagues. In a general attempt to avoid uncomfortable thoughts and feelings, we can make so many plans and do so many things that in the end we aren’t able to keep up with our calendar. If comparing ourself with someone else makes us feel insecure, we can start having condescending thoughts about the other person and neglect the kind way of being that we truly want to experience and express.

There are countless ways in which we can attempt to control and avoid difficult feelings, thoughts and bodily sensations. We all do this to a certain extent, but when it starts limiting us in living a meaningful, enriching life, we can learn how to be with our inner experiences in a different way.

Learning How to be With Our Experiences in a New Way

In ACT, we will work with willingness to feel all feelings, sense all sensations and allowing all thoughts to come and go. If we try to do this the way most of us are used to, it can seem overwhelming. In ACT, we therefore train new ways to be with what we experience. We do this by means of methods that can vary from person to person, for instance conversation, mindfulness practices and breathwork. Like in CFT, we will in ACT train becoming able to be with all our experiences in a present, kind way.

Being in Life in a Fuller, More Enriching Way

The foundation for ACT is the question: What is important to you in your life?

As in existential therapy, it is in ACT essential to find our what matters to you. How do you wish to live your life, and how do you wish to be – towards yourself, others and the world? In the sessions we will get closer to this. We will talk about what we can work with in order for you to start living your life more in accordance with this.

We will train these new ways of being with and to yourself, others and your environment during therapy. For some, this process brings about changes that are obvious to others; the life of the person thus changes in practical and visible ways. To others, the process primarily involves changes experienced by the person him- or herself as well as those that are close to the person. The changes are in other words psychological but not necessarily very visible to the outside world.

Some find themselves surprised by the experience of how merely relating differently to their inner experiences – thoughts, feelings, bodily sensations – and how one is with others can create significant changes in their experience of life. Others experience it being like coming home; back to what they knew was the way they wished to live.

Katja Christensen, Psychologist, MS
Dronningensgade 23
5000 Odense
Denmark
Phone: (+45)42655057
Mail: katjachristensen@protonmail.com
VAT/CVR number: 41118547